Relationship Goals?????

2:53 PM nciloe 1 Comments

I suddenly had the inspiration to post this after reading a post about relationship goals on a website.
I am not sure if this post may be sensitive to a few individuals so do read this with an open mind. The excerpts in bold are from the article I read and since i could not write it any better I decided to just copy and paste the important points.:) 

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That is, what are relationship goals in actual fact?

"You might think you’re allowing the world to see how deliriously #blessed #relationshipgoals you both are, but trust me when I say you and your relationship needs to grow up."

I find myself falling into the category of sometimes wanting to post every single detail of my relationship on each and every social media. I do not know what the true intentions really are behind all those posts. Who are we trying to prove or show that both individuals are happy in a relationship?
We are all slaves to our own pride, wanting to show off our best moments in our life.

"Nobody needs to know your love story in explicit detail, especially its negative sides, in order to be fully appreciated. Unless you’re Kardashians earning big bucks over the drama you make, it does your relationship no good for us to know whenever you’re doing bad or great, even if the great part includes a grand gesture with 50 balloons and chocolates after you’ve made-up-or-break-up for the second time this month.

Learn to balance pride and privacy.

Otherwise, your audience will be waiting with their bowl of popcorns ready.

Your relationship is not a joke and it should not be a source of entertainment for the people in your Friends List, unless you let it."